Q: I love my husband very much but he seems to have lost his interest in me. This is painful and I don’t know how to handle it. How can I bring back the passion?
A: Passion waxes and wanes with most couples. To keep a relationship juicy, you must first keep yourself stimulated and happy. Are you doing things for yourself that make you interesting? Are you growing and learning new things? Are you happy with your body, mind and soul? If you are not happy with yourself or life, you husband will sense this and mirror it back to you. Also, do you and your husband do things that bring you together having fun? Passion comes from being loving with each other and sharing things that inspire you both.
Sit down with your husband and tell him you love him and you miss the passion between you. Ask him to tell you what he needs in order to bring the passion back. Plan some things together that excite you both. Also, find the passion in your life that will keep you stimulated and excited about life. Make sure you do things to keep yourself healthy and fit, growing intellectually, and feeling good.
